Is it right to tell my friend's lover that my friend isn't in love?
Heheehehe @ the picture above. Let me explain it again for the non Nigerians and non Yorubas reading this blog. The lady was having a conversation with a guy saying God should punish all those our boyfriend's friends who calls us 'Iyawo Oremi' meaning my friends wifey, knowing fully well that their friend is actually not in love and is just playing us.
And then the guy replies that may God also punish all tthose girl friend's friends who knows their friend is playing them and yet calls them 'Oko Oremi: Meaning my friend's hubby'.
This language is common among lagosians here in Nigeria. It's a way they hype their friend's boyfriend or girlfriend.
When I saw this yesterday on a friend's BBM Display Picture I couldn't stop laughing because I know it's actually true. So now the question is why do we actually do that because am sure almost everyone out there does it.
Your friend isn't in love with that guy or that babe but of course you can't walk up to him or walk up to her and tell him the truth about his or her relationship but the sad thing is are you actually doing the right thing especially if that guy or babe is truly in love and a very good guy or girl because finally when that guy or girl gets heartbroken, he or she looks at you too in disgust that why didn't you help out since you knew...
What do you guys have to say to this, is it actually right to keep such a thing or talk out?